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Soldier and Family Readiness

Fort Carson Army Community Service is here to serve the Soldier and Family Readiness community of SFRG members, volunteers, Command Family Readiness Representatives (CFRR's) and commanders/Rear Detachment commanders.

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What is Soldier and Family Readiness?

The Department of Defense defines Family readiness as the state of being prepared to effectively navigate the challenges of daily living experienced in the unique context of military service.

The Army is comprised of nearly one million Soldiers across all components and has roughly 1.3 million Family members. The strength of the Army hinges on their collective readiness. Army Families make selfless contributions every day to support Soldiers and Army readiness. Army Families endure challenges unique to military communities, such as frequent Soldier deployments for operational, contingency or training missions around the world. 

What is a Soldier & Family Readiness Group (SFRG)?

A Soldier/Family Readiness Group is a command sponsored organization of Family members, volunteers, Soldiers, and civilian employees belonging to a unit, that together provide an avenue of mutual support and assistance and a network of communications among the Family members, the chain of command, chain of concern, and community resources.

What are the roles within the SFRG?


The commander serves as the Soldier and Family Readiness Group (SFRG) Leader.  Army Command Policy 600-20 (24 JUL 2020) and The Army Leader’s Desk Reference for Soldier/Family Readiness provides specific guidance for the command roles. Additional material is provided in the SFRG Command Team Training.  

  • Commander
  • First Sergeant
  • Command Sergeants Major

Command Family Readiness Representative (CFRR):

The CFRR serves as the commander's representative to ensure the free flow of information and support between the unit leadership, its volunteer base, and unit personnel to include Family members.  Provides operational (primary advisor to the SFRG on all military matters), administrative (ensure SFRG rosters are up to date) and logistical support (coordinate volunteer training) to the SFRG leadership.  Monitors and maintains oversight of the Command Soldier and Family Readiness Program.  CFRR duties are assigned by the commander.  The Senior Command Family Readiness Representative (SCFRR) at Bn and Bde level provides assistance to subordinate CFRRs and facilitates the free flow of information regarding Soldier and Family readiness to and from the brigade/battalion command teams and steering committees.  The SCFRR serves as a point of contact to ensure subordinate units receive the necessary support from brigade and battalion and provides advice to the brigade/battalion command teams regarding Soldier and Family readiness related issues.  

ACS offers a quarterly CFRR Academy where CFRR's can learn more about:

CFRR Expectations

CFRR Role/Leadership Management

Communication Network & Critical Incidents

Non-Mission Essential Activities & Resources

& More!


The SFRG is not a one-person job, therefore, additional volunteers need to be recruited in order to build a team that works together for the good of the Soldier's and Families in the unit. 


The Family Member:

Unit Soldier & Family Readiness Groups (SFRGs) foster a sense of belonging to the unit and community, and provide a vehicle for Families to develop friendships while they gain information about the unit and community. In addition, they provide information and referral, and share support during deployments. Through successful SFRG efforts, many spouses have developed a more positive attitude toward themselves, a better understanding of why deployments are necessary and the Army mission to maintain readiness.

The Soldier:

SFRGs provide support that communicates command caring, genuine care, and as open and honest communication as possible. This allows Soldiers to trust in that care, which enables them to concentrate on the mission at hand, and have the emotional readiness to carry out that mission. SFRGs help develop a confidence in Soldiers that Family members will receive reliable and friendly support when the Soldier is away. This can be a meaningful stabilizer for Soldier performance in the unit, and an enhancer of training and psychological readiness to fight.




Soldier and Family Readiness Guidance (Policies & Regulations)


FORSCOM OPORD CORPS and MSC ISO Soldier/Family Readiness Group Program dated 30OCT20 Establishes FORSCOM guidance for the unit SFRG program.  Some highlights from this OPORD include the requirement for CFRRs at the brigade and below level, the establishment of the commander as the SFRG Leader and will not further delegate this responsibility; establishes the CFRR position as a non-deployable additional duty; requires appointment orders for all personnel with a functional role (with the exception of the commander and SFRSA); requires the CFRR will not be assigned other additional duties; and, establishes the required training for CFRRs.

Fort Carson and 4ID SFRG Program DMO establishes local policy/guidance in response to FORSCOM OPORD 30OCT20.

Army Directive 2019-17 (Changes to the Soldier and Family Readiness Group Program).  Dated 01APR19.  This directive established an official name change to refer to FRG's henceforth as SFRG's, Soldier and Family Readiness Group.  It also establishes policy changes to fundraising, reporting, and informal fund activities for the Soldier and Family Readiness Group (SFRG) Program.  It supersedes AR 608-1, Appendix J

HQDA EXORD 233-19 Army-Wide Implementation of the Soldier and Family Readiness Group Dated 16DEC19 is designed to add clarification of the Army Directive 2019-17.

The Army Regulation that governs all Soldier and Family Readiness Group operations is Army Regulation 608-1, Appendix J

Army Command Policy contains guidance on Army Family readiness at para 5-2, page 48 Army Regulation 600-20 (dated 24 July 2020)

The Department of Defense Instruction (DoDI) 1342.22 establishes policy, assigns responsibilities, and establishes procedures for the provision of Family readiness services.

Fort Carson Administrative Law provides some Fort Carson info papers on SFRG's

*NEW  Fort Carson's new Food Vendor Approval policy allows unit events that are limited in scope, not open to the public, under 300 attendees (or any other SEVA requirement), and has food prepared only by those attending the event to serve food without vendor approvals.  See page 2, "Unit/Agency Events" of the   Fort Carson GC Policy #7:  Food Vendor Approval







Soldier and Family Readiness Resources:

Fort Carson "Pass It On" bi-weekly newsletter to keep yourself and your SFRG informed!

Military OneSource

Your Soldier, Your Army is a guide that any Family member will find helpful!


Child Resources:

Peak Vista - First Visitor Program


Employment Resources for Military Spouses:

The Blue Star Spouse Employment Toolkit can help in translating Military Spouses' Lived Experience into Strong Resumes


Visit the Army Community Service Employment Readiness Program at for a multitude of resources to help with your career plan and job search!



Click here for pre-deployment, deployment, and reunion resources.

Leader's Toolbox for SFRG's


Your SFRG can use the below resources in emails, on social media and in other virtual platforms to set up contests, virtual get-togethers or other SFRG connection activities:

Stay-At-Home Care Package

Stay-At-Home Date Night Ideas

Date Night Conversation Starters

Family Dinner Table Topic Talk Cards

Printable Daily Schedule Dial for Kids

Indoor Scavenger Hunt

Spring Scavenger Hunt

Inventor Scavenger Hunt

Nature Scavenger Hunt

Backyard Scavenger Hunt

Rainbow Scavenger Hunt

Book Scavenger Hunt

Five Senses Scavenger Hunt

Math Scavenger Hunt

Doing My Part BINGO

Indoor Scavenger Hunt 2

Healthy Habits Children's Activity Book

Talking With Your Kids About Coronavirus

Fun Match Activities to Do Together When Physically Apart

Coronavirus:  A Book for Children

Coronavirus Anxiety Workbook

COVID-19 Parental Resource Helping Children Cope

COVID-19 Parent handout:  Talking to Children About COVID


Looking for tools to use in operating the SFRG, resources that others have created, or handouts to provide or use at your SFRG events?  Here are some great tools to use:






Look for complete information on volunteer registration, VMIS, volunteer awards, etc. on the Volunteer webpage HERE







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